Showing posts with label memories. Show all posts
Showing posts with label memories. Show all posts

Thursday, 16 August 2012

I Got A Result!

Today was results day. I won't babble on too much to cut a long story short I got a very unexpected result. The story all starts way back in Feb of this year, I decided I wanted to go to University and so within a week I'd set up my late UCAS app and sent it off to two Uni's, Derby as my first option and De Montfort as my back up.

Sadly, Derby being my first option I was slightly disappointed when just a week later they sent back with an unsuccessful and I thought any hope of going to Uni was lost. Then came the conditional offer for De Montfort, which for those of you who don't know meant that as long as I met a condition set then I would be going to De Montfort.

The rest of the terms later, I'd put in my work for Media in hopes of meeting the condition (a B) so that I could get into my Uni that was good enough. The second option but hey it was still an option right?

So when I went to collect my results today and found that I had a C and was only one mark off a B you can imagine my first reaction; my heart pounded and somewhere within me tears wanted to form in my eyes and at the back of my head there was this voice telling me to just give up and soak up in all the negativity that this suggested. Instead I took a deep breath and accepted why I could feel so sad but instead as usual I refused to give up hope.

As soon as I got home I rang in to numerous clearance hotlines, trying my utmost to find a place that would suit me. De Montfort turned me down right away without another consideration, but Derby on the other hand listened. Derby took in my results and told me that with what I had achieved I could now be given a verbal offer to join the University.

Let's just review this a second; I didn't get the grade I needed to get to get into my second best Uni but somehow I got a grade that single handedly led me to getting into the Uni I had originally hoped to get into.

The Universe works in an odd way my friends. I should feel disappointment for what I got today and I know that part of me is wanting sympathy. Truth is I don't need it. That part of me is being stupid because I got what I wanted, I have come this far and now I am going on farther so what is there to complain about?

I would just like to thank everyone,  my girlfriend Alissa, my parents, my friend Jacob, my tutors Claudine, Phil, Martin and Ben for all of the support they have given me. I'd like to thank them for all the good times and all the fantastic things that I have learnt and the undying faith they have in me.

It is people like this, people who look after me to the extent where they make me feel special. My gratitude expands so far to them because they believe in me and I believe in myself because of them. Thank you world for the opportunities I have, thank you all for reading todays blog, heres to the future, the future of wonderful attractions and the strange ways I'll get to my goal, I'm living my life to the full....and it all starts here!

Friday, 10 August 2012

It's not your problem!

Do you believe that what goes arounds comes around? Do you judge people by their actions and never forgive and forget? Has someone ever hurt you so bad that you are angry with them and just don't want to know them anymore? Maybe you tried your own form of revenge or chose to give someone a "taste of their own medicine? 

What about bullies? People at school/work who go out of their way to make your life miserable, people who just love to call you names and manipulate you to feel negative emotions. We all have to have these kinds of humans in our life but it is how we react to them that matters. For instance, if you're called fat by someone and that hurts, it's only hurting because you allow make you see their views and somehow agree with them. 

It's either that or the pure principle that someone would say that. these people go out of their way to make your life a living hell, pushing your boundries forever treating you badly and you are naturally hurt, angry or upset by this and start telling others about how one person said this and another did this and you're forgetting that while the saying "sticks ad stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me" may be true, you're making what they say come true by giving these people the time of day. 

If they want to try and hurt you, then that's their problem. What if I told you that it really doesn't matter what they think or how they treat you, at the end of the day that is THEIR problem. Think right now, if a person treated you like dirt would you automatically treat them like dirt? If they did something would you try and emulate what they did in some form or way just to prove a point? 

I know that most of you would because I can honestly admit without thinking twice I would. The beauty of it is, is that unlike others you've read this blog and now you're fully prepared for these people, I'm about to offer you a way of thinking that will make you smile when these people try and ridicule and upset you, it will put you straight ahead of the other person and you will always come out of these experiences with the better life. 

Think about it this way; when they mock you, or focus their energy on trying to bring you down, or just generally treat you un-politely, they are sending these thoughts out to the universe and only attracting a life that is either awful or only good enough, these people just can't see the good side of their life so they take it out on you and the rest of the population and that truly is their problem. 

Now when you stop for a moment and look at the situation like that you see that no matter what they do or how they treat you, you must not repeat how they treat or talk of them badly. Don't even think of them badly because when you think of them badly the negativity goes to the law of attraction and starts to work against you. 

We're all human beings living alongside each other and we choose how we feel about things, if you're angry stop for a moment and think about how that hinders you and just favours them. Stop and realise that these people are merely humans with the problem, don't make their problem yours, because you deserve the best life possible. Live it to the full and allow other people to live with their problems but don't become one your self.

Tuesday, 7 August 2012

Get a Lucky Item!

Ever had a mate or colleague who wears lucky socks to help them out at a job interview or to calm their nerves when they go somewhere, or who has a lucky penny they picked up off the street hoping to find good fortune? Or have you ever owned one yourself and felt so confident when you go out because literally nothing bad can happen to you, you're untouchable and oh look you found a twenty pound note on the floor and that spirals you off into a whole day of just luck luck luck!

Some of you might have even woken up and just have the worst morning, they all start with the pointless little things like the milk has gone sour, or you stubbed your toe as you got out of bed or just anything that can annoy you at such an early hour. What follows is you have a bad day and the negativity just keeps coming back for more.

Do you ever wish that life was like that Harry Potter book where Harry gives Ron that good luck potion and he just has the best day, the best thing is even in the Harry Potter universe the Law of Attraction is working. Because in the book Ron has the best luck, thinking he's drank the potion to give him luck but really Harry has just tricked him to us his confidence and that's the little trick you need if you want to sustain a lucky item.

So come on, lets get that lucky item made shall we. I want you to find a memory, any memory at all, maybe it was having a good laugh in the park with your mates or the best interview you ever had or just any memory that has had a positive impact on your life. Now that you have the memory I want you to get a piece of paper and spider diagram all kinds of things that go with this positive memory- you can be as abstract as you like just take a pen and write away, all kinds of stuff, here's an example of how random it can be;

When I first met my wife- the park- a bench- a piece of wood- the log fire

So just use your imagination, write down the most obvious connections to each word that you can possibly think of. Finally I want you to bring the ideas to something that can be an easy to obtain object, using the example above you can see that I've written a piece of wood/ the log fire. I could easily go out and find a piece of wood or I can easily go out and get a picture of a log fire to stick in my wallet.

Now that you have come up with what the item can be using a significant memory I want you to get the item that you want to you and hold it in your hands. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths to relax your body and empty your mind; imagine the memory in as best detail as you can and allow yourself to let the happiness sweep over you, let the memory consume you and feel as good as you possibly can.

Once you have finished thinking of the memory slowly open your eyes and put the lucky item in your pocket or anywhere where you can take it out. When you feel like you are having a bad day, take it out and remember the memory that it connects to, automatically your subconscious will connect it to this positive memory and that energy will consume you rendering you one of the luckiest people.

Just trust in your item, believe that it's lucky, be grateful for the positivity and the memory that bought you this item and you'll never be short on luck.

Monday, 6 August 2012

The Power of Meditation

So on my first day of the journey to attracting my aims and ambitions in life, I decided to try and teach myself a new skill which should prove quite useful. In order for the Law of Attraction to truly work it's magic I need to live a fully positive lifestyle, any negative energy needs to be dealt with and lets face it negativity will someone try and creep into our lives at one point or another.

What I learnt today was a very valuable way to rid myself of the bad stuff and truly feel at one with the universe.

I decided to have a quick read up on meditation, so I grabbed the kindle, typed out a search and went looking for the best meditation book I could find (always go for the best) and just read the basic principles for beginners, if you don't fancy buying a book or reading try You Tube, they have some pretty interesting basics and some nice music to listen to as you get yourself into the relaxed mood.

Now I don't know anything about meditation at all and I've never tried it before today, so what happened was quite remarkable. I sat on a cushion in the upright position, ready and alert. I closed my eyes and started to focus on my breathing trying to relax myself and get myself into the mood as naturally as possible. From what I had read some for of prayer of connection to the divine is needed and  so I spoke to God within my head. I thanked him for all of the lovely things that he has given me in this life, I told him that I was very grateful for the world he has placed me in, for putting me in an era where the technology is so good it allows me to make films, I thanked him for my relationships and thought of all of the wonderful things life has already bought me.

After this process of concentrating on what I already had and feeling grateful I began to imagine the air that I breath in as yellow energy and what I breathed out was red energy. The red energy was the negative influences that were in my body, I could feel a slight ache within my stomach and I imagined it to be a pit of red energy. Breathing in would suck up some of the red energy from my stomach and breathing out would expel it out of my body.

I continued to do this for about 5-10 minutes allow myself to be completed relaxed until finally my imagination saw myself surrounded by blue energy. The blue energy meant that I had reached total purity, I enjoyed breathing in and out the pure energy until eventually I felt ready to be awakened from the meditation process.

For those of you who do not believe in this technique I would like to give you what my scientific theory is on this subject, why is it that from only breathing in and out, using my imagination, I was able to get rid of the stomach ache I was experiencing?

The way I see it is the mind controls the body, without your mind you would not be able to even make sense of your current reality. I believe that my using your imagination you are making your mind focus on the "red energy" as the negative and tricking it to believe that you are relieving yourself of the negativity therefore it believes that the pain is no longer nessecery and the simple thoughts of expelling the red energy become the reality.

This in itself proves the true power of your mind. Today I learnt that the mind is the most powerful weapon in our arsenal and for those of us who use it properly we are bound to succeed and have a wonderful and abundant life.

Thanks for taking time out of your day to read this post guys, until tomorrow... Ciao!