It's not your problem!

Do you believe that what goes arounds comes around? Do you judge people by their actions and never forgive and forget? Has someone ever hurt you so bad that you are angry with them and just don't want to know them anymore? Maybe you tried your own form of revenge or chose to give someone a "taste of their own medicine? 

What about bullies? People at school/work who go out of their way to make your life miserable, people who just love to call you names and manipulate you to feel negative emotions. We all have to have these kinds of humans in our life but it is how we react to them that matters. For instance, if you're called fat by someone and that hurts, it's only hurting because you allow make you see their views and somehow agree with them. 

It's either that or the pure principle that someone would say that. these people go out of their way to make your life a living hell, pushing your boundries forever treating you badly and you are naturally hurt, angry or upset by this and start telling others about how one person said this and another did this and you're forgetting that while the saying "sticks ad stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me" may be true, you're making what they say come true by giving these people the time of day. 

If they want to try and hurt you, then that's their problem. What if I told you that it really doesn't matter what they think or how they treat you, at the end of the day that is THEIR problem. Think right now, if a person treated you like dirt would you automatically treat them like dirt? If they did something would you try and emulate what they did in some form or way just to prove a point? 

I know that most of you would because I can honestly admit without thinking twice I would. The beauty of it is, is that unlike others you've read this blog and now you're fully prepared for these people, I'm about to offer you a way of thinking that will make you smile when these people try and ridicule and upset you, it will put you straight ahead of the other person and you will always come out of these experiences with the better life. 

Think about it this way; when they mock you, or focus their energy on trying to bring you down, or just generally treat you un-politely, they are sending these thoughts out to the universe and only attracting a life that is either awful or only good enough, these people just can't see the good side of their life so they take it out on you and the rest of the population and that truly is their problem. 

Now when you stop for a moment and look at the situation like that you see that no matter what they do or how they treat you, you must not repeat how they treat or talk of them badly. Don't even think of them badly because when you think of them badly the negativity goes to the law of attraction and starts to work against you. 

We're all human beings living alongside each other and we choose how we feel about things, if you're angry stop for a moment and think about how that hinders you and just favours them. Stop and realise that these people are merely humans with the problem, don't make their problem yours, because you deserve the best life possible. Live it to the full and allow other people to live with their problems but don't become one your self.

Method to this Madness

The first time I met my car I asked it what it's name was, it told me that it's name (like all cars) is the last three letters in the licence plate, therefore my cars name is WUT, however she told me she likes to be called Wiley and since then we formed a fantastic partnership, I've been in a few sticks in the three months that we've been on the road together but each time we've come out of it raring to go and full of confidence.

I can imagine you are all thinking that I'm crazy, what is this? You're talking to an object! A machine! Are you mad? 

In all honesty one could argue I'm a little loopy for doing this, for talking to my car and acting almost as if it were a living person with it's own personality. But I ask you not to judge me just yet, because there is a reason for this so called "madness" and I will be delighted to explain myself and hopefully I can convince you that talking to items and objects will help your life immensely.

One thing that we need in using the Law of Attraction is gratitude. Thinking about the positives that we currently have in our lives and actually focusing on them, feeling grateful and soaking up how fantastic our current situation truly is allows us to be thankful about it and being thankful, feeling gratitude, convinces the Law of Attraction to give us more things that we can be thankful for.

Now, you're probably wondering what exactly this has to do with me talking to my car? Well the truth is, when I talk to my car and imagine that my car is a real living person, I have something to direct my gratitude towards, if I'm going along a road and the sat nav tells me to turn left a little too late and instantly I'm spinning my wheel, almost skidding around the corner and juddering like mad but do I stall? No. Because I was grateful to the car, I treat it as my partner, helping me arrive from one place to another.

With this sense of partnership, I'm using another part of the Law of Attraction; when you think dominant thoughts you get the vibe of that thought right back, the twin of the thought is the emotion that you are feeling, when I'm feeling happy or glad or relieved with my car its sending out that signal to the Law of Attraction which will automatically give me more good times in my car and keep my car running a lot longer than it would normally; just acknowledging the car and sending it feelings of happiness and gratitude help make my driving life more fun and pleasurable.

So why don't you try it? Try talking to your toothbrush in your head when you brush your teeth, thank it for the great job it's doing. Or in your head tell the kettle that its doing a great job boiling that water or tell your that it tastes really nice and you're so thankful to it.

You might feel a little odd at first, but once you start to appreciate your environment and every little detail of this lovely planet we live on your reality begins to shape into a fantastically positive one! Remember feeling mad can be justified if there is a method to it (an extremely positive one!)

Get a Lucky Item!

Ever had a mate or colleague who wears lucky socks to help them out at a job interview or to calm their nerves when they go somewhere, or who has a lucky penny they picked up off the street hoping to find good fortune? Or have you ever owned one yourself and felt so confident when you go out because literally nothing bad can happen to you, you're untouchable and oh look you found a twenty pound note on the floor and that spirals you off into a whole day of just luck luck luck!

Some of you might have even woken up and just have the worst morning, they all start with the pointless little things like the milk has gone sour, or you stubbed your toe as you got out of bed or just anything that can annoy you at such an early hour. What follows is you have a bad day and the negativity just keeps coming back for more.

Do you ever wish that life was like that Harry Potter book where Harry gives Ron that good luck potion and he just has the best day, the best thing is even in the Harry Potter universe the Law of Attraction is working. Because in the book Ron has the best luck, thinking he's drank the potion to give him luck but really Harry has just tricked him to us his confidence and that's the little trick you need if you want to sustain a lucky item.

So come on, lets get that lucky item made shall we. I want you to find a memory, any memory at all, maybe it was having a good laugh in the park with your mates or the best interview you ever had or just any memory that has had a positive impact on your life. Now that you have the memory I want you to get a piece of paper and spider diagram all kinds of things that go with this positive memory- you can be as abstract as you like just take a pen and write away, all kinds of stuff, here's an example of how random it can be;

When I first met my wife- the park- a bench- a piece of wood- the log fire

So just use your imagination, write down the most obvious connections to each word that you can possibly think of. Finally I want you to bring the ideas to something that can be an easy to obtain object, using the example above you can see that I've written a piece of wood/ the log fire. I could easily go out and find a piece of wood or I can easily go out and get a picture of a log fire to stick in my wallet.

Now that you have come up with what the item can be using a significant memory I want you to get the item that you want to you and hold it in your hands. Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths to relax your body and empty your mind; imagine the memory in as best detail as you can and allow yourself to let the happiness sweep over you, let the memory consume you and feel as good as you possibly can.

Once you have finished thinking of the memory slowly open your eyes and put the lucky item in your pocket or anywhere where you can take it out. When you feel like you are having a bad day, take it out and remember the memory that it connects to, automatically your subconscious will connect it to this positive memory and that energy will consume you rendering you one of the luckiest people.

Just trust in your item, believe that it's lucky, be grateful for the positivity and the memory that bought you this item and you'll never be short on luck.